ART, ART, ART, ART, music, movies, FOOD, FOOD, FOOD, FRIENDS, FRIENDS, FRIENDS, animals, stuff, more stuff and everything that goes under the heading.....stuff, myself, shopping. TRAVEL, TRAVEL, TRAVEL. I forget anything else right this minute.

My all time favorite movie is 2001, then there is, An Unfinished Life,Close Encounters of the Third Kind,Shaft (1971,Richard Roundtree), WAY TOO MANY OTHERS TO MENTION, BUT I LIKE SCI-FI, ROMANCE AND JUST GOOD "PEOPLE" STORIES TOO.

Enya, Kevin Kern, Suzanne Cianni, Taliesin Orchestra, Mary Fahl, Pat Metheny, Enigma, Sara Bareilles, Delerium, Zero 7, Coldplay, Alphaville, Clannad, Davi, William Orbit, Adiemus, Fergus Currie, Sarah Brightman, FC Kahuna, 2002, Deep Forest, Allison Krause, October Project, Mandy Moore, Moya Brennan, Attic Trax, Vangelis, Secret Garden, The Housemartins, The Januaries, Outkast, The Cranberries, The Moody Blues, Chumba Wumba, Smashmouth, Davol, George Winston, Vince Guaraldi and let's not forget QUEEN!!

Winter's Tale by Mark Halprin - Stephen King's The Stand, The Shining, The Dead Zone - Michael Crichton's Sphere, The Andromeda Strain, Jurassic Park - Kurt Vonnegut's Slaughterhouse 5, Gravity's Rainbow - Larry Niven's Ringworld Series, The Integral Trees, The Smoke Ring. WAY TOO MUCH TOO MENTION, but my first love is SCI-FI

Doing my art, listening to GREAT music and having fun with friends!!! Love making, not just sex. Kissing, cuddling (especially cuddling), hugging, touching and being with someone I love.

STUPIDITY (WHICH INCLUDES "NOT" BEING ABLE TO SPELL AND USE THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE), ARROGANCE, POMPOUSNESS, EGO-CENTRICITY, RUDENESS and last but not least.................GUYS WHO "ARE" ALL THAT BUT KNOW IT AND TRY TO SHOW OFF THEIR "ALL-THATEDNESS" TO EVERYONE...............PLEASE, GET A LIFE.

My name is Cary and I am here for friendship, but I am here to get to KNOW you as a man, a person. I want to know WHO you are and WHAT makes you tick. I was, until recently, not looking for anyone in particular. The "particular" part still holds true, but loneliness ALWAYS wins out and I would LOVE to have the fortune of finding love with the right man. I am very open and honest about my being gay. I make no bones about it when I'm asked, but my being gay does NOT define me totally as a person. It's part of me, but I have MANY other sides that I am equally as proud of. I want to find a man of integrity, I want to know that someone can accept love and intimacy for everything that it is worth and I need to know I can expect this in return from the man who will be with me. NO games. NO lies. NO conversions. We make equal ground with steady footing, where we each support the other with EVERYTHING we can give....................and then give some more. Drama? How the hell do YOU define drama anyway? Life is DRAMATIC at times, but it is also quite COMEDIC. Drama comes and goes, there is no getting AROUND it. Usually, DRAMA and BAGGAGE are good indicators that we need to PAY ATTENTION to areas of our lives and the lives of those we LOVE that NEED WORK. Big deal, so life is life, DRAMA and BAGGAGE can teach us much if we let them. HOW one DEALS with and goes THROUGH DRAMA is the challenge, just as the BAGGAGE. Life comes with drama and baggage, but we don't have to let them RULE us.Put everything out on the table and I will do this for you. Let me see, hear and touch WHO you are, WHERE you come from and WHAT makes you get up every morning. I love ALL life and revere it as I do MY OWN.....................every bit of life energy is tied to us in ways we can't imagine, but we ALL NEED TO CHERISH ALL LIFE AS IF OUR OWN. I am also an artist, having earned my Bachelor of Fine Art from the University of Michigan-Flint. My college career indoctrinated me into the world stage. I was fortunate enough to have travelled some, so I was shown by meeting people from other countries that I am not alone in this world. It is small, but it is also HUGE!! The most valuable lesson I learned in school. I met many brothers and sisters abroad, that share some of the same likes and dislikes as me, we are ALL children of the universe, we are the same. I hope to meet many more brothers and sisters some day, God willing. Please KNOW THIS: If you are only trying to increase your "friend" count, don't bother me. If your request is a link to your porn site, don't ask, because you are wasting MY time as well as YOURS. AND, the biggest of ALL, "I AM NOT A RICH MAN SO DON'T BE HITTING ME UP TO BE YOUR SUGAR DADDY"......OK?? If ANY of this strikes a chord with you, then write to me. Inform me. Enlighten me. Walk with me, be my FRIEND. Let's all take the journey togther.